2016
How do you respond to set backs? Do you cry? Do you want to kill yourself? Do you get extremely depressed? Do you isolate yourself? Do you give up? Do you lose hope? Do you fight to bounce back? Do you continue moving forward? There are so many ways different people respond to setbacks that come into their lives, but the difference between an optimistic person and a pessimistic person is that an optimistic will always see a good in the bad, whilst a pessimistic person will continue dwelling on the bad things. Setbacks make people that are weak depressed, cause them to isolate themselves, give up, lose hope anything that will let them feel bad for not making it in whatever they want to do. However setbacks make people that are strong bounce back, polish on their weaknesses, continue moving forward, build their self esteem, feel good. When I refer to weak or strong in this context I mean: Weak minded :people that look at the negative and do not appreciate the positive aspect or the lesson they should learn. Strong minded :people that see the good in every bad situation and learn at the lesson in every bad thing so that they can improve themselves in the long run because of them having once failed before. A disciplined person who is in the process of changing from being weak minded to being strongly minded starts to realise that as you fail you start to go somewhere. You choose whether to go up or down.Whether you want to empower yourself or not even after many set backs. If you don’t fail then there must be something wrong with you, you must be supernatural then, actually you must be God because he is the only one that doesn’t fail. Failure doesn’t start when you are a adult.I hope you are understanding me here, because if we really analyse the human system we are built up of failures. Take a look at this for instance :
If you apply that concept in your life now you will see a change within your life because you start to view things differently. Your setbacks are there to help you polish up your mistakes, it leads you to perfection.Look nothing comes easy, so look at setbacks as your test and if you really want it you will do whatever it takes to make it happen. When you reach the stage of perfection you start to realise the results you did not expect. “it is your attitude that determines who you are-SPMZ” The human mind can be manipulative if you don't tame it , so teach yourself to be self disciplined for you to make it to the stage you want in life, but like I said this will only make sense to those that are willing to change from being weak minded to being strong minded. Hope this has helped you. Feel free to comment and socialise with me on my social platforms. Yours Francisca
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