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Good afternoon EGF!
Its been so long since I last posted something new, and I feel as if I have left you under suspense for a very long time, and that's not good because you really come to a point where you start to wonder if I will ever come back.
But don't worry I am here, your sister is here!
Today I will be talking about the importance of confidence.
It's very hard to be confident without people thinking that you are arrogant and have so much self pride, and a big ego. But let me tell you something, people will always talk and its always up to you to make a change and let people see things differently.
People have flaws , but they should be confident with their flaws, for example, someone with small breasts for instance, when they see other people who are really gifted in that area they start to think that maybe they are not beautiful in their own way and they start to think twice about themselves which ends up leaving them with a low self esteem and lack of self confidence.This is a wrong concept and you shouldn't think that since this person has this and I do not have it they are better than you, that is a lie and I feel that its not fair to ever think that about yourself.
Rock those Flaws:
For you to be confident , rock those flaws of yours, if you are afraid to speak out, start a youtube channel whereby you speak to a invisible audience that will see you on a screen, their comments of encouragement will help you to become more confident with yourself.
I really admire Winnie Harlow because she rocks her Flaws with confidence, there are a few people like that we can meet in our lives , and everyone mostly has even toned skin , she doesn't have that , in a normal situation she should be grieving and hoping she looked like the rest of us, but she has decided that I need to rock this because this is the only life I am going to live, this is the chance I have , this is all I've got.
You see the importance of confidence?
Look at her,isn't she just beautiful?
Okay now, you may ask how do I become confident?
First of all you need to :
Forgive yourself: Yes , yes forgiveness, its a word that people do not like to use and hear much , but I feel that the first step to building self confidence is by forgiving yourself, because when you don't forgive yourself, you tend to hide yourself inside, you hide yourself in a shell and you don't see the bright side of things, you feel that people are going to judge you. When you forgive yourself you tend to forget what others have to say that is bad about you , and you start with yourself on a new page, this helps you to move on . If you feel that you cannot forgive yourself, pray about it , and God will really help you to forgive yourself.
Fake it until you make it!
Start off small, if you cannot talk to people, try have a conversation with a classmate you talk to once in a while, participate in group discussions, be social , make a blog where you talk about your views, the more you participate socially , you get to fake that confidence that you have, and slowly the fear of not being confident flees from you.
Take part in social activities in the community
By doing so you open up and in social groups you are forced to talk, if you are still in school join toast masters, drama, debate etc, this way you will be able to build the walls of confidence.
I believe that lack of confidence is caused by fear , and fear is in the mind , fear does not exist , and if you eliminate fear you will have confidence.
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When your chips are down, and you slow down and realise how your life is going , you make great decisions.
In your silent , calm moments thats when you make right decisions.
How a positive mind will help you achieve your mini goals.
In my 12th year in high school ,I was a basketball player , but the coach always picked on me for all my wrongs ,and despite the fact that I was a good player , he would put me in the second best team in the school.A lot of people dropped out and they stopped playing the game, but I continued going for all my practice sessions an continued keeping it on the low.
Then one day we had a tournament at a neighbouring school in the city.The coach put his favourite first five, and after the first quarter I was put in.I scored a minute after I got in and the coach was shocked, I played well enough to get the coach wondering where I had been all along.
The moral of the story:
When things are not going right, force yourself to keep going on, keep going strong and eventually you will be noticed, or you will notice your hard work.
By remaining optimistic I got the change how the coach perceived me and by working hard and being consistent it eventually paid off.
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Good morning Exotic Glamor family!
today I am going to be talking about how to achieve sleeping goals .
we all have dreams and aspirations, but the difference between a regular person and a exotic person is :
A exotic person plans out their day, months, year , future.
A regular person sees the day as it comes their way.
There are many ways of achieving goals.
Firstly you need to:
I usually plan out my days and have a checklist with me for the day, this makes me manage my time wisely and makes my day more organized. I don't follow the wind or move about aimlessly before the I finish my daily goals.
I hope this has helped you.
How do you respond to set backs?
Do you cry?
Do you want to kill yourself?
Do you get extremely depressed?
Do you isolate yourself?
Do you give up?
Do you lose hope?
Do you fight to bounce back?
Do you continue moving forward?
There are so many ways different people respond to setbacks that come into their lives, but the difference between an optimistic person and a pessimistic person is that an optimistic will always see a good in the bad, whilst a pessimistic person will continue dwelling on the bad things.
Setbacks make people that are weak depressed, cause them to isolate themselves, give up, lose hope anything that will let them feel bad for not making it in whatever they want to do.
However setbacks make people that are strong bounce back, polish on their weaknesses, continue moving forward, build their self esteem, feel good.
When I refer to weak or strong in this context I mean:
Weak minded :people that look at the negative and do not appreciate the positive aspect or the lesson they should learn.
Strong minded :people that see the good in every bad situation and learn at the lesson in every bad thing so that they can improve themselves in the long run because of them having once failed before.
A disciplined person who is in the process of changing from being weak minded to being strongly minded starts to realise that as you fail you start to go somewhere. You choose whether to go up or down.Whether you want to empower yourself or not even after many set backs.
If you don’t fail then there must be something wrong with you, you must be supernatural then, actually you must be God because he is the only one that doesn’t fail.
Failure doesn’t start when you are a adult.I hope you are understanding me here, because if we really analyse the human system we are built up of failures.
Take a look at this for instance :
If you apply that concept in your life now you will see a change within your life because you start to view things differently. Your setbacks are there to help you polish up your mistakes, it leads you to perfection.Look nothing comes easy, so look at setbacks as your test and if you really want it you will do whatever it takes to make it happen.
When you reach the stage of perfection you start to realise the results you did not expect.
“it is your attitude that determines who you are-SPMZ”
The human mind can be manipulative if you don't tame it , so teach yourself to be self disciplined for you to make it to the stage you want in life, but like I said this will only make sense to those that are willing to change from being weak minded to being strong minded.
Hope this has helped you.
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As woman, we tend to be very emotional. Its not because we chose to be emotional , but just by the nature of how God made us we tend to lean more in that direction.Men are stronger physically and have less emotions ,and the opposite is true. Now the various cultures have different views upon a woman. For example I am a African , and as a girl , we are taught that when we grow up we should get married, but is this truly how we ought to perceive our lives as? NO! That is not why we were created to be here on earth.But as women what are our weaknesses?
There are various of things to master under self discipline.Which are as follows:
The ability to master your own emotions, appetites, and inclinations.Now allow me to elaborate on the above three things you should master:
The ability to control yourself and your actions, control what you do , say and do and making sure your behavior is persistent.
is the ability to do what you should do when you should do it , whether you feel like it or not.
Denying yourself of the easy pleasures, or short cuts which are temptations that lead you astray.
The ability to put off satisfaction in the short term in order to enjoy greater rewards in the long term.
Once you have mastered these things your weaknesses slowly fall off. You get to understand your true self and the things you accept and don't. This leads to self respect and your surroundings start to listen to you and take you more seriously because you know who you are and were you stand as a woman.When you stand up for yourself the way the community, world perceives you is different and as a result when you speak your voice is heard. But even in your weaknesses you still have hope in your God
2 Corinthians 12:9-10
9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 10 That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.